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Dear Birthmother,

Laughter, grace and patience and the love of Christ are our foundations to raising kids. We have struggled with infertility as a couple yet we are so excited to grow our family through adoption! We are looking forward to sharing special moments together like going to church as a family of five on Christmas Eve for the first time and enjoying the small moments in life like warm hugs after a day at school.

About Us

Our story started five years ago when we met at a chance meeting at a local business. We both felt an immediate comfort and connection to each other like we had been friends for a long time. Soon after that, our friendship grew to romantic love and we saw that God had a special plan for us to become a close, loving, blended family of different backgrounds and cultures.  We are a family that thrives on having fun and being there for each other. Some fun things we enjoy doing is going to DisneyWorld every year and taking our yearly family picture in front of Cinderella’s castle that we hang in our hallway. We also like to have family game/movie nights just to hang out together as a family. We are excited to share our traditions and making brand new ones!

Meet my husband, Hai

Hai is a lovable, humorous and heart of gold kind of guy. He loves being involved in our church by volunteering his time to help others and playing golf with his friends on the weekend. Hai is an amazing dad and friend to our two kids, he is always doing whatever he can to show love and support to them. I am looking forward to seeing him pass down his wisdom of perseverance and unique understanding of being raised in a different culture to our children. He is excited to teach our next child all about helping others and to share his love of golf with them.

Meet my wife, Sarah

Sarah is a strong, beautiful and hilarious woman. She always puts everyone’s needs before her own and is the best gift giver in our family! She loves anything and everything that has to do with DisneyWorld. She also enjoys volunteering at a local pregnancy homeless center and just trying to think of ways to help put a smile in someone’s day. Sarah is my best friend and is an amazing mom to our children. She is excited to read stories before bed, share her love of Disney and play games with all of the kids in the backyard no matter how old they get.

Laura and Kole

We have been blessed with two kids from Sarah’s first relationship. We have grown to become a close family of four, all of whom are excited to be a family of five. Laura and Kole are so excited to have a younger sibling and have been helping us decorate the new nursery.

Our Family

We have great relationships with our extended family, they have all been so supportive and excited to see us add to our family through adoption! We are looking forward to celebrating the holidays together, introducing the new baby to our favorite pumpkin patch that Sarah grew up going to, sharing Chinese New Year with Hai’s family and celebrating Christmas at Sarah’s parents’ house!

Our Cozy Home in Missouri

We live in a two story, four bedroom house with a big fenced in backyard.  One of our favorite things to do together at the house is to make popcorn and watch movies together on Friday nights. We also enjoy talking walks together with our dogs around the subdivision. The house also has a finished basement where the kids like to hang out with their friends and have sleepovers. One of our favorite traditions is to start watching Christmas movies on November 1st and leaving our Christmas tree up all year round to get ready for Christmas! We also love raising our family in a house that is in a quiet and safe subdivision to grow up in.

Our Promise

We promise to always provide a home full of love, laughter and security. It’s important to us that we provide Christian Private Schooling for your child so that they will always have the best education. We also promise to love and celebrate the blessing that your child is and that we will fully support them in their hopes and dreams as they grow up. We are open to texts, photos, emails, and visits so they will always know how much they are loved and cherished on both sides of their families. We look forward to speaking with you soon!

To learn more about us, please call or text Lifetime at 1.800.923.6784.

Learn More About Hai & Sarah

An audio message from Hai & Sarah

  Hai Sarah
Our EducationAssociate’s degree in Computer ScienceSome College
Our ProfessionsSoftware DeveloperStay at home Mom
Our Racial BackgroundVietnameseCaucasian
Some of Hai & Sarah 's Favorites
What is your favorite movie?Shaolin SoccerMulan
What is your favorite hobby?GolfCollecting Disney mugs
What is your favorite dog breed?Miniature DachshundChiweenie
What is your favorite holiday?ThanksgivingChristmas
What is your favorite dessert?Hot apple pie with a scoop of vanilla ice cream on topAny kind of cupcake with lots of frosting
What is your favorite season?Spring so I can go outside and enjoy the great weatherFall because of the perfect weather to wear some jeans while cooking smores outside
What is your favorite vacation spot?Disney World Always Disney World
More About Our Family
Our Family Traditions

We are an extremely close family that love finding any excuse to hang out with each other with living only a couple of miles away from extended family. We love doing things together that we keep passing down generations like picking pumpkins together at the same place every year and driving through the same park together to watch the Christmas lights and going to Disney World once a year no matter how old we get.

Our Faith

Our daily walk and relationship with Jesus is the anchor of our family and marriage. We are blessed to have Sarah’s dad as a pastor and are both involved in ministries at church. We also enjoy going to church on Saturday nights and praying together as a family.

Our Pets

Our pets have always been a big part of our family and they bring us so much laughter and love. We have three loving dogs, two miniature dachshunds, Monkey and Jasmine, and a chiweenie named Hei-Hei. We also have a very sweet cat Meow-Meow an entertaining parrot named Cha-Cha.

About Our Home

We live in a two story house with four bedrooms and a finished basement. Our house also has a big fenced in backyard that we love playing in with the kids. Each of our kids have their own bedroom and we have had so much fun together decorating the new nursery. The house is also in a very safe, quiet neighborhood that we really enjoy living in.

Our Children

We have two wonderful kids, Laura who is 15 and Kole who is 12. Laura is an old soul who loves to bake from scratch and paint whenever possible. Kole has a great sense of humor who loves playing soccer. And they both can’t wait to have a new sibling and have been a great help getting the nursery ready!

We live in the state of


Our jobs

Hai is a software engineer and Sarah is a stay at home mom.

We Prefer a Child Who Is...
Age of Child

Newborn to 6 months


We are open to either boy or girl and are excited to see how God grows our family!

Ethnicity of ChildWe are open to a child of any race!
Future Contact with Birth Family

We are open to texts, emails and yearly visits for you and any relatives to let your child know how much they are loved and cherished by both sides.

In Closing

Thank you for taking the time to learn more about us. We will always provide a home full of love, laughter, and security for your child. We will support them in all of the dreams they have for their life and be loved unconditionally for who they are. We look forward to keeping in communication with texts, emails, pictures, and visits if you would like but we will also respect your privacy if that’s what you are desiring. If you would like to learn more about our family, please call or text Lifetime at 1-800-923-6784.

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